Guiding, in my world, is always a two-way street.

I can’t sit in the passenger seat without being transformed by where someone drives us. I’ve become the Guide I am today, in part, because of the people I’ve walked with – and the wisdom born from their courage and pain.

I’ve journeyed with the three people in the videos below for years. One is a colleague and two are longtime clients. Each has taught me something unique – gifts I now carry forward into every session.

It’s testimony of their transformation – but it’s also testimony of my own.

ELI

I’m really grateful to have spent the ridiculous amount of time I have with Eli. He’s not a current client but a colleague, and we guided and supported each other for years – including 7-hour weekly calls at one point.

(Yeah, it’s exactly as intense as it sounds – and it’s a friendship and training ground that has turned me into the Guide, friend, human I am today.)

JACK

I’ve had the privilege of working with Jack for three years now. We’ve driven through some pretty intense shit in our time together – and yet he refuses to drop his sensitivity or sense of humor. Jack has single-handedly ignited my passion to help all of us boys rediscover the tenderness we’ve had to bury.

NANCY

I’ve had the real honor of guiding Nancy for eight years – from group work and in-person VIP Days to now one-on-one for the past several years. We’ve gone a lot of deep places together, but it’s her connection to myth and archetype – and her somatic, body-based wisdom – that have shaped the way I guide today.