I’m not sure what drew you here, but I’m really glad you came to check out how I work with people.

I’ll be honest, I’ve never been at the doorway to any big moment – including writing this page – where I didn’t feel a mix of fear and excitement.

Imagining what’s possible in my ideal fantasy – and then the inevitable terror that I’m delusional, that I’ll get it all wrong, that I’m not ready for this.

Drama aside, we don’t tend to waste our strong emotions on stuff that doesn’t matter to us – even if we don’t know why it matters yet.

The Doorway into the Work

There are lots of doorways into this work. Clients come to me for all kinds of initial reasons. Maybe a:

Big life event – a divorce, breakup, or parent dying
Ongoing challenge you’re just fed up with – sexual shame or stuck in a rut in your relationship(s)
Longing or fantasy that won’t leave you alone – meeting the love of your life or gaining deeper spiritual awareness

It takes incredible courage to follow a feeling in the dark – that sense of:

“There’s something here, but I don’t know what it is. I don’t know what’s beyond this door – if I didn’t have this feeling or pain or longing anymore, who would I be?”

It’s the question all of us face when we’re at a doorway.

Because a doorway is just a pain or desire or possibility that’s strong enough to pull you past the fears and doubts – into deeper intimacy with yourself. Into remembering stuff that got buried long ago.

Beyond the Doorway

Then the doorway is just how we start the journey. Once we walk through it, it’s rarely just one part of you that changes – it’s everything connected to it. A single root awakening underground, until you realize an entire garden has come back to life.

I don’t get to decide how you enter or even where we’re going because I’m not driving the car.

That’s the thing about a Guide – it’s like having a buddy in the passenger seat who’s constantly:

Updating a map of your inner world, drawing connections, finding shortcuts
Changing the station to find the right vibe
Getting you so lost in conversation that you forget to obsess over where you’ve been and where you’re going

You just get to drive.

And I Guide alongside – not above you.

Just a fellow human who’s got wisdom from my own journeys, suggestions from having co-piloted others’, and the steadiness to see through the shadows that look like monsters in the dark.

The more you trust me, the more you show me.

A doorway is just the first thing you trust showing me. And then we go from there.

Finding the Right Guide

Sure, I’ve got some tools in my toolbox from my, ahem, many careers and certifications. But tools are only as transformative as they’re entrusted to be.

How safe you feel to share and receive – that’s what really matters.

So my best advice for finding the right Guide for you is find someone you trust – or just have an affinity for – even if you don’t know why yet.

That invisible pull that somehow bestows you with a little more courage, a little more safety, a little more possibility to be all of yourself.

If You Feel Pulled

All that said, let’s figure out if we connect and are a good fit for one another.

I like to start with a quick 20-minute Zoom chat to hear a bit about what you’re working on, answer some questions, and then tell you if I honestly think I can help – and how.

You can jump on my calendar below.

If we’re a fit, I’ll probably recommend a one-off, 90-minute session ($350) first to see how we work together.

(I get so tense waiting to hear prices on consult calls, so I’d rather just tell you upfront what to expect.)

After that, continuing work with me starts at $500/month. And I see clients Tuesday-Thursday from 9am-6pm ET.

A Final Word

Honestly, whether this is your first time on this page or your tenth – thank you for being here.

(By the way, I’m a huge lurker, myself – it just means something’s pulling you, but you’re not 100% in alignment about it yet. Forcing ourselves before we’re ready rarely ever works out.)

So let me just say this: it takes guts to stand at a doorway in your life.

To feel both fear and excitement.

To risk hope because what could go right is stronger than what could go wrong.

I’m glad you’re here.

And, if you feel pulled – my door’s always open.